I touched on the topic of questioning related to being a single parent/raising a child with special needs/my child who doesn't look like me on CJ's CaringBridge site. I have not had many experiences yet relating to actually dealing with people asking me questions about CJ's family unit or complexion. Though I have gotten the usual round of questions about what I am going to do when I do get asked these questions, along with "did you consider what others would think?"
My response is that I do not care what others think, and for the most part that is a true statement. If there is ever a point where I do actually care or the thoughts of others actually has an impact on me; the honest truth is that I care more about my little family than I do the unsolicited views of others. This being said, I am always open for new responses to the usual round of questions!